1. God

2. The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel, or whatever it’s called

3. Cassie making zucchini muffins for David and David enjoying them

4. Hannah’s big smile as she hands out swag at the college bookstore

5. Meeting John C.

6. and catching up with Bob S.

7. and seeing Laurie R. again after a couple of years

8. A sense of acceptance – it is – and what I can do to change something, these are different things

9. A sense that I can take responsibility for my reactions

10. A thoughtful call from Nancy R.