It’s always darkest before the dawn

Sadness feels suffocating. Breathing returns to normal as seemingly miraculous solutions appear to what seemed to be impossible situations.  I am so grateful for these friends, solutions and miracles!

A cherished family member who knows exactly what you are experiencing, because he has been there, and now he is here for me and for my family.

The kind, loving and generous spirit of my new sister, who has gone above and beyond to make it possible for me to focus on life and not on stress.   Infinite love!

The compassion, love, support and humor of my new daughter.  She moves so easily from one of us to another, lifting us up, making us laugh and keeping us sane.

The unconditional love, support, and acceptance of my husband.  Always kind, always reassuring, always patient, always tender, always gentle, always understanding and always ready to offer a wise-crack to make me laugh, even in the worst of situations.

Receiving a waterfall of caring text messages, phone calls, emails, and Facebook messages in one morning.

The lift from just a touch of make-up.

Making the most of insomnia by rising and writing lists, letters, ideas and notes, then sitting by our window to watch the glorious sunrise.

The gift of gas cards that will ease my daughter’s stress

Being together with my daughters and my husband for a favorite family meal.

A friend who is calm, cheerful, loving and generous.  Her gifts make me feel better, her laughter heals my heart, her easy, positive attitude help me focus on all the good,  And the waters she has provided made everything taste good.

Posting a gratitude list at 11:30 pm, and having 3 comments appear within one minute.

 

About Ruth

I am married to Dave, my long lost love. We have 3 beautiful, wonderful daughters, and a home filled with peace and joy! I began writing gratitude lists about 15 years ago, and they have made a huge difference in my life. By taking the time to notice all the amazing goodness in my life, I open myself to receiving even more good. I've also found many new and wonderful friends through the gratitude community.

7 thoughts on “It’s always darkest before the dawn

  1. You are an inspiration! You look at everything (good or bad) head on & always see the beauty, even through the clouds. I pray I can one day share your ability to see the greatness in everything, no matter what the situation may be!
    I pray that peace will always be with you, and your family.. XOXOXO

  2. You’ve sad it so well, “sadness feels suffocating.”

    The opposite of suffocating is breathing in, exchanging, breathing out. And that’s what you’re doing. After so many years of giving, giving, giving you are taking in all this love and giving back the richness of your being. And we are blessed.

  3. Sending you love and light, Ruth. You are in my thoughts and prayers for continued blessings. <3

  4. It is an honor to read your words and to benefit from your wisdom, my amazing and miraculous friend.

  5. My dearest Ruth!!!!
    Please receive all my love and respect from MEXICO, with gratitude for having met you and your lovely daughters. Thanks for sharing!!!! Love you!!!

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