1.Thank God for a friend who helped me with something I couldn’t do alone

2.Assimilation

3.Freedom of symbolically destroying my past

4.More space to move forward

5.Someone who really seems to understand

6.Dreams that somehow make it clear what you must do

7.Learning just by listening

8.People who are willing to share the tough stuff

9.Majority of my hair survived

10.The way it feels laying down to bed after a day that challenged my soul