Had a great day with 6 month old twins today. Grateful they are sharing life with me. Also grateful for the following:
1. Finally came up with an analogy (which makes sense to me) regarding why it is usually not a good idea to look for advice or answers to major “issues” from close family members. People like Mom and Dad, or siblings, etc… A trusted advisor once told me this “stop going to your parents for answers or advice on these issues” they won’t give you the best answers. Let’s say I decided to write a book, and once it was completed, I wanted someone to review it and give feedback. If I gave it to Mom or Dad or Brother or Sister, I would get feedback which lacked objectivity. Whereas if I gave it to t close and trusted friend, I may get feedback I do not want to hear, but feedback I need to hear. While all family dynamics are different, I think finding solutions to our major life issues (or getting objective review of our books!) is best found outside the family unit. And I am not saying to hide our problems from our families, just that they are best suited to provide support and no so much solutions. For this insight, I am grateful.